What to do when someone says, “what you’re doing will not amount to anything”.

a separate persimmon tree surrounded by an oak

a separate persimmon tree surrounded by an oak

Study this picture and you’ll see that is not a limb growing out of this tree, but it is an entirely different tree growing in  a most difficult situation.  Both trees are very old.  The net fencing at the bottom of the tree was put there during my papaw’s time of farming.  The barbed wire fencing has been nailed onto the tree over the last decades.  The top strand has actually grown into the persimmon tree over the past 30 years  I was curious why us farmers nailed the fencing to the small tree and not the much larger tree.  That’s when I realized that the small persimmon tree was growing more upright.  Poor little tree.  Sure has and is taking a lot of abuse just to be able to live where it is.

What is amazing to me is that each year this persimmon tree bears a lot of fruit.  Persimmons….. they don’t call it deer candy for nothing.  The cows love them.  As well as the horses, deer, and myself as well.  This tree’s fruits are sweeter than most persimmons.  But looking at this tree you would think that it would not amount to anything.  Wrong, wrong, wrong.

It does make you wonder what kind of tree this would have been had it been planted somewhere all by itself, away from encroaching oak trees, and farmers’ fence staples.  Probably would be 50 feet tall, with  uniform and gloriously spreading branches reaching in every direction.  It’s got perfect limbs, perfect leaves, why I bet there’s a bench under this perfect tree where people come sit to look and gaze and admire at what a perfect tree looks like. It’s got its own website, social media, fan club, and bank account.  A perfect tree in anyone’s book.  It has amounted to something.  But trees don’t decide where they are to be planted.  They are created to bear fruit.

But back to the original tree that struggles to make it.  I showed this tree to several people to see what their comments would be.  Most folks thought that the tree was struggling, it wasn’t being treated fairly, and that it certainly wouldn’t amount to anything where it is.  Wrong, wrong, and more wrong.  It bears fruit every year for the cows, deer, critters and me.  It definitely doesn’t look like it should.  It struggles.  but, the fruit is sooooo good.     To those of us critters 2 and 4 legged that know this tree, it’s valuable.  To the world in general, it is not going to amount to anything.

What about you?  Has life stapled barbed wire around you.  Does it seem that worldly “problems” have surrounded your life?  Have you heard someone say that you/your life will not amount to anything?

Matthew 7:16 NLT You can identify them by their fruits, that is, by the way they act………

People who tell you that you won’t amount to anything measure success by the amounts.  You know, the amount of units sold, the amount of money possessed, the amount of people you control, the amounts of anything you can claim.  But shouldn’t we be more than that.  Because if that is our life’s true goal, then we truly haven’t amounted to anything.

Identify yourself by your “fruits”.  Even when wrapped up in “barbed wire” and surrounded by the world you can still be what God has created you to be.  I like to think that this persimmon tree is a great example of “living in but not of this world”.  It’s focused on bearing fruit, growing upright, and LIVING no matter what comes.

So there you are producing fruit.  So many different fruit trees.  Look at this list of fruit…… teaching music to a child, singing at the nursing home, raising children, leading a men’s group, praying for someone, volunteering, helping the needy, being there for someone.  My, my, the list is endless as it should be.  Fruits of the spirit have no limit.  They  also  have no amount.  God knows where you’ve been “planted”.  He knows about the “barbed wires” of your life that could hold you back. But He also sees “your fruit”.  Well done, keep on bearing fruit, growing upright, and LIVING no matter the cost.

What should you say when you are told that you won’t amount to anything?  My advice……. say nothing.  You are focused on bearing fruit, not amounts.  That’s difficult to calculate what is considered successful to some people.  Or……………, you could tell them they are wrong, wrong, wrong.  That to argue with them about what you are worth would be a waste of your time.  Besides, it wouldn’t amount to anything.  Bam! 

 

Made from Scratch (something from nothing)

 

made from scratch

made from scratch

 

 

It’s a badge of honor and glory.  When something is home made, hand made, made from scratch, it means that it’s a better product, right?

“Made from scratch” definitely makes it better to me.  Betty Crocker brownies from a box are pretty good.  Brownies that are home made, hand made, made from scratch just have that extra oomph to make them a special treat. Chocolate pudding?  Well, start with cocoa and all those scratch ingredients, cook it according to the recipe book, serve it warm…….. and Man, what you talking ’bout!   Compared to “made from scratch” chocolate, instant chocolate pudding is like eating the wet paper towels used when you spill your coffee on the computer. (There it’s cleaned up, sorry for the interruption)

Friends of mine, Jon and Liz have a farm where everything seems to be made from scratch. It’s a beautiful site.  You would agree with me.  Picture a country setting, a warming spring day, tractor plowing the fields and garden, and what looks like close to a hundred chickens, ducks, geese, guineas, and other feathered friends. These birds are canvassing over and across the just plowed corn field scratching to their hearts content.  It was a beautiful site seeing all those birds free ranging in Jon’s field. This farm will be producing lots of vegetables and fresh eggs.  But, as a fly fisherman, what was the beauty that I was most interested in? ……….Feathers!!!

It’s a badge of honor and glory to tie your own “made from scratch” flies.  Even more glory when you catch fish on the flies that you yourself have tied.  Jon and Liz gave me a bagful of feathers the next day. (I guess he could tell I was drooling over all those “feathers” walking around in his garden.)  Hey, fly fishermen don’t think exactly like everyone else.

I’ve taken those feathers, and have made a fishing fly that is home made, hand made, and made from scratch.  In a few days, this fly will be cast on the water ever so gently, with the hope of catching another trophy.

Ephesians 2:10New International Version (NIV)10 For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

God has made you.  You are His home made, hand made, made from scratch.  It’s a badge of honor and glory.  Yet sometimes we put ourselves down.  We think that we are no good.  I’ll never forget even though it was years ago.  A severely mentally handicapped young man came to our church and sang “Somebody bigger than you and I”.  It made me realize that I was not much more than this mentally handicapped  young man.  But there he was saying “I know I’m somebody, cause God don’t make no junk!”

Well, there you go.  In spite of your problems, your shortcomings, your not being perfect……. you are home made, hand made, and made from scratch.  And God don’t make no junk!   It’s a badge of honor and glory.  Make something from nothing!  Let your glory be for God’s Glory!

See Ya!  Dan Ainsworth wilderness preacher

 

 

 

Your choice! Fishsticks or ………. Rocky Mtn Lakes Trout

Frozen microwaved fishsticks

Fresh Rocky Mtn Trout and Bacon !!!

The Real Thing…..Fresh Rocky Mtn Trout and Bacon!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You get to choose.  Which one do you want?  If you wanted to eat fish for supper, which of the two meals would you pick?

Most people want the fresh mountain lake trout. But, sadly most people choose to settle for fish sticks.  Why?  You tell me.  More than likely we grab the frozen sticks from the freezer because it’s convenient, easy, and quick.  Bake them in the oven for a few minutes or better yet, pop ’em in the microwave and Bam!, you’ve got a fish dinner.  With enough ketchup they don’t taste that bad.  Invite a few friends over.  Better yet, make this a Valentine’s date……. one that she’ll never forget.

Really!  Treating the one you love to fish sticks?  Not happening at my house.  The love of my life deserves better than to have to settle for frozen, minced fish sticks.

So,……… on your spiritual journey are you wanting the Real Thing from God, or are you just settling for fish sticks.  Is Jesus the Love of your life spiritually?  Really, and all you are getting (and giving) from this relationship is fish sticks?  What’s up with that?

John 5:44 NIV   How can you believe since you accept glory from one another, but do not SEEK the glory that comes from the only God ?

Accepting glory from one another is like settling for fish sticks.  There is no effort required.  Seeking the Glory from God involves well,…. seeking.  It’s taking effort, putting forth some action.  It’s definitely not settling.  Seeking the Glory of God and His Will for your life involves you seeking, watching, and even moving closer to your Lord and Savior.  I’d even compare it to hiking to a mountain lake, actually catching your supper, and then cooking it.  But all this effort makes the event that much more meaningful.  Spiritually, you and the love of your life, Jesus are on the spiritual Valentine date each and every day. Each and every journey.  One that you’ll never forget……forever!

Don’t settle for fish sticks!  My prayer is that you “skin your knees”,  as you travel on your journey.  It’s definite proof that you aren’t settling for less.  The journey seeking the Glory of God involves effort, seeking from you, sometimes “skinning our knees”.  Sort of reminds me of why I like to go fishing.

We’ve got a choice of popping in frozen minced fish in a microwave, or hiking for miles, outwitting these cutthroat trout, cooking, and then eating this delicious meal.

We’ve got a choice of going through the motions of religion, or actually praying, reading God’s Word, seeking and being with God.   What’s your choice?   Here’s mine!

SEEKING both God's Will and fish

SEEKING both God’s Will and fish